Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Love Languages

It's kinda interesting to discover your love language.

From the results of the test on this site, http://www.afo.net/hftw-lovetest.asp, my primary love language is the quality time. But equally important is the physical touch. The 3rd one is the acts of service. Only 10% is the words of affirmation. Receiving gifts is not on my list. It's a little bit different than my guess. My original guess was acts of service, quality time and physical touch.

For Thuy, his primary love language is the acts of service. The quality time is the next on the list. Surprisingly, the physical touch and receiving gifts are equally important.

I don't know how accurate the test is for other people. But for me, I think it's very accurate. It's so true that the quality time is my primary love language because that's how I would like to express my love to family or friends. Getting together for lunch/dinner or going on vacations together or just hanging out is the most important to me in any relationships. The physical touch is only true with the relationship with my spouse. However, with friends, I don't think that's true. I don't feel comfortable touching or hugging friends. The acts of service is true for any relationship for me.

I learn the hard way to love other people the way they want to be loved. So I'm very interested to know about your love languages. Friends and family, if you want, try the test and let me know your languages.

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